Opposites Attract: A History of Love Borne Out of Loathing!

You drive a Lexus, he rides a Harley; you have the punk-rock look going on, he’s a sporty guy. Even your political views aren’t the same!

If we are not mistaken, this is a classic case of ‘opposites attract’ but why do they occur in the first place?

Author of You’re Never Upset for the Same Reason You Think, Paul Cutright says the meaning of ‘opposite’ is different for everybody.

The author goes on to explain how unresolved patterns in people attract each other, which the world mistakes for opposite attraction.

Our Need for Greater Connection Is At Work Here

Man is essentially a creature of instinct and base desires. We have an innate need, hidden deep inside to connect with others.

We want to feel loved and needed. As human beings, we are always looking to make our lives meaningful. Always soul-searching and introspecting…never compromising.

After all, it’s natural to want to experience greater love, support, connection and everything that comes in between. Remaining in this path, we also search for the other side of the coin. We yearn for adventure, freedom, risk, challenge, and intensity. Next time you spot a meek looking girl reading Hunger Games, don’t be surprised.

We are all looking for Peeta to our Katniss, the Belle to our Beast and a Chrissy Teigen to our dorky John Legend.

Hollywood Adores A Good Case Of Yin and Yang – We Soak It Like a Sponge!

Nobody does it well as Hollywood when playing matchmaker, whether in movies or real-life. Case in point: She’s Out of My League, featuring nerdy and slightly awkward Jay Baruhel who plays Kirk and falls hopelessly in love Molly (Alice Eve). Who is she? A dream girl and definitely out of his league!

Why You Have To Find Your Polar Opposite?

What better way to find a meaningful connection in a relationship than sharing space with your polar opposite?

Anyone can share a mutual love of a certain movie or music artist. With a polar opposite, you will at least know the relationship isn’t based just on looks or surface-level interests. Yes, you and your partner might not share everything in common, might even hate other on first sight and have different tastes in almost everything. But seriously, who cares? If anything, all these superficial differences will become the spice of life!

Being different doesn’t mean there’s no room for meaningful, intense conversations at 3 AM. Polar opposites bring something new and different to the table every minute of every day! Polar opposites not just attract, they click together.

Which celebrity is your polar opposite? Find out now!